Earrings were incredibly beautiful, matching well with other piercings as I wore them in my seconds with small hoops/sleepers and patterned studs. However I wore them maybe twice before one of them fell out and I could not find it. I have smaller ears/lobes so this usually doesn't happen for me. Maybe try putting a clear stopper or something similar on the back of the earring.
Sorry to hear that, my suggestion would be to pinch the ear wires together slightly. If you email us direct, I can give you a 50% coupon if you wish to repurchase them,